Mental Gymnastics

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Mental Gymnastics

By Peg Ryan
Mile High Pilates and Yoga

Custer, SD – Most of us already know that exercise can contribute to improved physical health.  Studies continue to demonstrate that even small amounts of moderate exercise can reduce or delay the risk of a variety of diseases and disease precursors including heart disease, stroke, diabetes, high blood pressure, and osteoporosis.  Exercise can also help sufferers manage back pain and depression.  Balance, flexibility and postural training can help prevent falls.

According to an article  from the National Center for Biotechnology Information although “compromised bone strength (osteoporosis) and falling, alone, or more frequently in combination, are the two independent and immediate risk factors of elderly people’s fractures . . .  of these two, falling, not osteoporosis, is the strongest single risk factor for a fracture.”  The article goes on to say that “in fall prevention, regular strength and balance training, reducing psychotropic medication, and diet supplementation with vitamin D and calcium have been shown to be effective.”  Another article from the British Journal of Sports Medicine echoes this finding:  “Exercise is effective in lowering falls risk in selected groups and should form part of falls prevention programmes.”

Exercise is not only an important to our physical well-being but it contributes to our mental health as well.  Recent studies , including one published in the Archives of Neurology, show a link between physical exercise and cognitive function.  ” ‘Our findings contribute to the growing body of literature that indicates the potentially beneficial relationship between physical exercise and cognition,’ Yonas E. Geda, MD, of the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., and colleagues concluded.”  Another article  asserts that exercise may even reduce the risk of dementia in people aged 65 and older. According to these researchers:  “Regular physical exercise is an important element in overall health promotion and might also be an effective strategy to delay onset of dementia.”  Exercise in this case was defined as a physical activity in which the subject engaged for a minimum of 15 minutes at least 3 times per week. Seems like a small price to pay for a potentially big benefit.

The importance of exercise to the physical body should come as no surprise, especially to regular exercisers.  The bonus of improved mental health is similarly not unexpected among those who recognize that all systems in the human body are related and interconnected.  (And, yes, that means our teeth, eyes and feet are all contributors to our overall health despite the fact that our health care system considers them separate.  But that’s a topic for another day.)

What may be less well-studied, but no less apparent to active people, is that the converse is also true.  Lack of movement contributes to decline of many physical and mental functions.  Recently a participant in one of my classes was lamenting the fact that the decline seems to accelerate with aging and become that much more difficult to overcome.  This means that if we stop moving, it becomes that much harder to get moving again.  The less we move, the less we want to move so lack of movement ends up contributing to further lack of movement.  Nobody really knows why this happens, but one thing is certain.  It takes mental as well as physical strength to get back in gear.  This is the function of the Warrior in yoga.  It’s not about destruction or revenge, it’s about exercising courage and overcoming obstacles.

Most of the time, we create our own obstacles.  We are really good at making excuses for not doing the things we want to do.  Of course, we are only hurting ourselves by constructing these fences, but sometimes that gives us another rationale. We fall into a self-pity trap that begins “if only . . . ”  You can fill in your own blank here.  Examples, “if only I hadn’t gotten injured” or “if only I wasn’t overweight” or “if only the weather was better”, etc. etc.  You get the idea.

Here is one of the most common obstacles I find when people are trying to get back into moving:  “if only I could still do what I used to be able to do.”  This is simply imposing unrealistic expectations on ourselves.  The way things were will always be part of the past and unless someone invents some kind of time machine, we can never go back there.  All the lamenting and nostalgia in the world won’t make that possible.  Our old frenemy change will always come back to haunt us.  Nothing stays the same.  Change is constant regardless of how fervently we resist it.

So the best we can do is use the present to pave the way for the future.  There are no guarantees.  We can’t go back, but we also can’t see into the future.  Stuff happens and despite the pronouncements of various pundits and so-called experts there is no way to tell what will happen tomorrow.  But we can do the best we can to deal with what we are presented with today.  If you’re trying to start or get back into a regular movement practice, there is no better time than right now.  But you may need to get out of your own way to do it.  Instead of making excuses for why it is not possible, try to make it a priority.  Carve out the time just as you would if you were making an important appointment.  After all, what good are you without your health?  You can’t help anyone else unless you first help yourself. If you’ve ever flown in a commercial airplane you might remember the admonishment of the safety instructions:  put on your own oxygen mask first.  You can’t give what you haven’t got.  And we all have much to give.  Instead of fixating on what you can’t do, try focusing on what you can do and move from there.  Start with a small does and move from there.  Get up and walk around the house.  Stand up and stretch.  You can do it!

Getting started is hard.  That’s true.  But call on your inner Warrior.  Take baby steps.  Start with 5 minutes.  Like we used to say in ultrarunning, start slow and back off.  If you want to take a class, just go.  Let go of vanity.  We all look funny moving around in a class.  A sense of humor is a great ally.  Remind yourself that you can stop any time.  There are no class police.  No one will arrest you for doing something different from what other people are doing. You don’t have to force anything.  Just stop when you need to.  Any movement is better than no movement at all.  Once you get started, it becomes that much easier to keep going.

The simple act of moving will help reduce your stress levels and improve your overall health.  It is almost guaranteed that you will feel better after you’re done than you did before you started.  And once you have the experience of knowing you can do it, draw on that strength to keep at it.  Changes can be subtle and sometimes we don’t notice them right way.  Don’t let that discourage you.  Just keep moving.  If you keep at it you will see a difference.

The Fine Line of Just Enough

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The Fine Line of Just Enough

By Peg Ryan
Mile High Pilates and Yoga

Custer, SD – In a culture that celebrates excess it can be difficult to find that balance between overdoing and knowing when enough is enough.  Sometimes we fall into the trap of comparing ourselves with others.  We see people around us who seem to always be accomplishing something. This can cause us to feel inadequate.  It’s tempting to focus on all the things we think we should be doing rather than seeing all the things we actually are doing.  All of us have different abilities, but we each have our own unique gifts.

A dear friend of mine recently lamented that she was unable to make it to the top of a mountain she was hiking.  This woman has accomplished a multitude of hiking feats throughout a still very active life.  Among these achievements she has successfully summited all 48 of the 4,000 foot peaks in the White Mountain National Forest not once, but twice!  This might not sound like much to those who have hiked the Colorado 14’ers or even higher peaks around the world, but that’s not the point.  The point is, this woman set her sights on a goal, achieved that goal and then helped her friends to do the same.  This same woman has finished many ultramarathons including numerous 50K, 50 mile and even 100-mile foot races.  All of these efforts will always be there as part of her history.  No one can ever take them away regardless of how her physical capacity changes with age.  She does not have to prove anything to anyone (herself included!) because she’s already been there and done that.

Years ago when I was running ultramarathons I once ran a 50K race in which I was the only woman in my age group.  It turned out that, in fact, no woman in my age group had ever completed that particular race.  So my finishing time was actually a “record” for women in my age group.  That was the final year for that particular race.  The course was changed the following year.  So the Race Director joked that my “record” would always stand.  There would be no chance for anyone to break it.  What a hoot!  I still chuckle when I think of that.  My time in that race would never qualify me for the Olympics but so what?  It was enough to be a record and it will always be mine.

We live in a hyper-competitive society.  Everyone wants to be a winner.  “Don’t rest on your laurels”, we are told.  It’s true that striving to be your best you can be a noble effort.  But sometimes we get caught up in the striving and ignore what we have already accomplished and what we can still do.  Just like everything else in the world our “best” is always changing.  By being present in the moment we can acknowledge what is working for us now.  What we did in the past will always be there.  Nothing in the past can ever change.  None of us knows what is going to happen tomorrow.  All we can know is what is true right now.   And our “best” today is the best there is.  No need for more.  It is enough.

No matter what used to be or might still be to come, there are so many things we are all capable of right now in this moment.  Among the things I love most about yoga and Pilates is that they are endlessly adaptable to one’s capacity in any given moment.  Some days we feel good, other days we might feel tired or stressed.  Perhaps we might be suffering from some excess of previous days or recovering from illness or injury.  Then there are times when we might be feeling strong and suddenly find ourselves completely stymied by some seemingly minor obstacle.  This can be especially frustrating. The cloud of self-doubt begins to loom overhead and we might be tempted to succumb to the fog. No matter what we are presented with on any given day, though, we can still bring ourselves to our practice and allow whatever happens to be as it is. Don’t give up the practice just because you think you should somehow be doing more.  As I have frequently said throughout this blog, showing up is half the battle.  If you come to your practice, regardless of what condition you are in physically or mentally, you have already succeeded.  Drop the word “should” from your vocabulary and substitute “I am complete and I am here now”.  Let that be your mantra.

There is a place of balance between the need to overachieve or live up to some invented ideal and the acceptance of where you are at today. Wherever that is, it is the right place.  Tomorrow will be different. But you can deal with that when you get there.  For today you are enough just as you are and whatever you do is just enough.